Records of a licensed program for runaway minors that identify a minor who has been admitted to or has sought assistance from the program are confidential and are not subject to inspection or copying under AS 40.25.110 — 40.25.120, unless (1) after being informed of the minor's right to privacy, the minor consents in writing to the disclosure of the records;
(2) the records are relevant to an investigation or proceeding involving child abuse or neglect or a child in need of aid petition; or
(3) disclosure of the records is necessary to protect the life or health of the minor.