If the department requires record keeping by a shelter for runaways or by a corporation that is licensed to designate shelters for runaways, records of the shelter and the corporation that identify a runaway minor who has been sheltered in a shelter for runaways or has sought assistance from a shelter for runaways are confidential and are not subject to inspection or copying under AS 40.25.110 — 40.25.120 unless (1) after being informed of the minor's right to privacy, the minor consents in writing to the disclosure of the records;
(2) the records are relevant to an investigation or proceeding involving child abuse or neglect or a child in need of aid petition; or
(3) disclosure of the records is necessary to protect the life or health of the minor.