Sec. 14. A court may only appoint a person to serve as a confidential intermediary under this chapter if the person:
(1) agrees to abide by the order of the court under section 3 of this chapter without advocating either the opening or maintaining the confidentiality of adoption records;
(2) does not have a personal relationship with either the petitioner or the person from whom the medical, identifying, or nonidentifying information is being sought; and
(3) agrees to comply with the limitations set by the court in searching for the information specified by the court under section 3(4) of this chapter.